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Posted by: jay | 2009/11/01

he doesn' t want 2

my Bf n I have been together 4 2years.
his previous relationship lasted 4years and was engaged.she broke off the engagement and broke his heart.
he says that he doesn' t want 2ask me coz he' s scared Ill say no. I,v told him countless times I' m ready and I want to get engaged. he says he wants to marry me but he' s not ready coz he has to develop the want to again. is it just me or is he just not interested?? he really seems 2 b committed to me. I' ve spoken 2 him about my feelings many times but he just gets angry and changes subject.
help!!

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Sounds like an unnecessarily complex story on his side. WOuld it be worth considering some sessions for the pair of you with a couples counsellor ?

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Posted by: ali | 2009/11/02

ja, go for couple therapy.
tell him how much you love him, but what you need

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2009/11/02

Sounds like an unnecessarily complex story on his side. WOuld it be worth considering some sessions for the pair of you with a couples counsellor ?

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