Our expert says:
You found out he had another girlfriend who he had been with for much longer than he had been with you, yet you chose to remain in a relationship with him, knowing he was cheerfully cheating on her, and would be very likely to cheat on you, and that this relationship you were enabling would be hurtful to the other woman.
You left half-heartedly, but kept going back to the rat.
Then when you meet her, you tolerate him lying shamelessly to her about you ? Of course he was using you, and her, and maybe others besides.
What on earth do you find loveable about a guy like that ?
Yes, you were foolish, as you well know. But don't feel sorry for yourself, because you knew for a long time he was cheating on you with her, and cheating on her with you, and that somehow satisfied you. Instead of broodin about the past, learn from it, and don't make abny contact with him again, nomater what he might say to manipulate you again. See a counsellor to gain some self-respect and assertiveness, too.
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