Our expert says:
Its important to form a relatonship with the person AS THEY ARE, rather than with the person you would like them to change into. Some folks are, for various reasons, deeply concentrated on their work.
And while this guy may be a bit unimaginative and undemonstrative about his feelings for you, I wonder how you are in return ? What did YOU do for HIM for Valentine's Day. for instance ( its not a festival entirely about men sending stuff to women, and should be well balanced ).
It's a pity if he no longer makes you feel amazing - do you still make HIM feel amazing ?
Apparently, if I understand you, he has given you the grat luxury of choosing not to work, and has allowed you to be dependent on him - this was your choice, and you could have worked and become independent. It's not his fault you chose otherwise.
Does he WORK late ? Or is he "with his mates" until late ? There's a difference. At least, simple courtesy demands that he keep you well informed as to his plans and times, so you don't prepare a meal without knowing when he will be home to enjoy it.
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