Our expert says:
Its not clear from your message in what was you work with him. Is this one-to-one work on a project owened by the pair of you, or do you both work for a company or organization, and happen to work near and sometimes with each other ?
It seems to me that infatuation, especially of this one-sided kind, is almost all about the infatuated person and their needs, and has surprisingly little to do with the target of the infatuation. Sometimes it arises from rather profound needs in the infatuator, that would best be explored and dealt with in counselling, before involving the infatuatee.
Where I might disagree with qwerty, is that you are probably not in any position to objectively or acurately assess his responses to a test coffee or movie evening - as humans, we tend to see what we are looking for, rather than what is actually there.
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