Our expert says:
One of the snags when one goes to work for a relative is that they may exploit you, and exploit your relationship. Is it his sister who was ignoring you at that time ? Sounds bad manners.
But why waste effort and energy in HATING her ? What she did was maybe unkind or thoughtless, but not necessarily hateful. It sounds as though these unhelpful feelings of hate are becoming a bad habit, and counselling would be a good idea to help you rid yourself of them. As I think you recognize, they're far more harmful to you than to anyone else.
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