Our expert says:
I think true love is always about something far more, and far deeper, than mere outer looks. Indeed, while the other person's looks are important to you, you are really considering them more as a fashion accessory, and not yet loving.
It sounds as though there is more going on, in each of you, below the surface, and more than either of you understand about yourselves, let alone about each other. Consider seeing a couples counsellor together, to seek to understand yourselves and each other, much better, and work out a happier way to be together
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