Our expert says:
I tend to agree with him. Your own happiness must always be your own responsibility - he's a boyfriend, not a court jester. Yes, he should not make you unhappy.
Also, you don't seem to be asking about whether you are making him happy. And you see happiness as something you "get" from others, like leprosy.
In a relationship, happiness is a potential benefit, but more as a by-product of what else one is doing together ( like sawdust is a by-product of woodwork ) rather than as the principle aim and activity
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