Our expert says:
Simultaneous sex with multiple partners is possible. Tricky acrobatics for the men though. On a more serious note, the types of activities you describe are very high risk. Condoms should always be used consistently and correctly. Anal penetration must be approached slowly and carefully - concentrate on relaxing your anus;
- use PLENTY of lubricant (the anus is not self-lubricating and as it is thin and tear easily, lubricant is essential);
- try to get used to the feel first with smaller objects than a penis (e.g. finger) and gradually move on to seeing if you can relax with his penis inside...move slowly. If you use objects, make sure it's not sharp, cannot break, or the bottom of the object is flared so that it can't be lost inside the anus. Sometimes the 'fantasy' is more pleasurable than the actual activity. Never 'hole hop' - that is have anal followed immediately by vaginal without changing condoms, or if you are reckless and not using condoms, wash before changing 'holes'. In closing, if the vagina was very sore after sex, you may need to allow some recovery time. Sex should not be painful. For more information visit SA Sexual Health Assoc website: www.sexualhealth.co.za
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