Our expert says:
Good response from Lin.
Staying with him and cheating is FAR worse than leaving him - do the more honest thing and leave. If the truth would hurt him, what do you think this current situation does ? Dithering is the worst option all round, and the one with probably the most hurt for everyone. Just do it.
You're not a terrible human being, just dithery and preferring to delay in the hope that some magical solution will arrive. It wont.
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