Our expert says:
Your girlfriend sounds like a very uinpleasant person --- she was happy to break up your marriage and ignored any effect this might have on your child, and then for bids you to speak to your ex, even if it's about the child ? And though you were not allowed to speak to your ex, the gf was happy to quarrel with your ex ? Frankly, I don't see how this gf's leaving is any great loss to you. Sounds like the sort of woman happy to break up someone else's marriage or relationship, but who then judges everyone else by her own low standards, and expects them to do what she did. You haven't described anything about her that deserves to be loved.
Don't allow yourself to be crushed by her again selfish behaviour. See a counsellor if necessary, even chat with Lifeline ( number on this page ) but don't asume you have lost any significant chance of love. Maybe you loved her, but what she did in both instances, was not loving behaviour except for self-love
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