Our expert says:
A dilemma to some extent, but as long as you are both in agreement with this arrangement then well done. Also, as long as any partners you have understand the arrangement and you are practising safe sex, then that would also be a great help. You will need to be discreet about this as it is an unconventional situation and children and peers may struggle to understand. If your husband supports this, then he is likely to back up your need for time out.
That said, I am wondering why at 55 he has not sexual interest at all - this is not typical and may warrant further investigation...unless the two of you have an understanding about this.
claire - SASHA
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