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Posted by: Leonie Georgeous | 2012-06-10

Going Crazy

I found out that my husband 40 had an email affair with a 33 yr old divorced co-worker. I was devastated! He complimented her on everything! I am 100% sure there was no sex involved. I went on facebook to see how she looked like. We have been married for 15yrs. This whole thing devastated me! I can''t seem to get over this! I look at her fb status regularly. I just cannot seem to forget the wonderful things he emailed her! Pls help me forgive and forget about this! I love my husband so very much!

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Maybe its easier for him to be complimentary in an unreal and distance relationship ? Anyway, marriage counselling is surelty needed here ? Its not as simple as just forgive and forget, but needs you both to work on it, together, and with expert guidance

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Posted by: Broken | 2012-06-14

I am there and I understand, nobody can understand the pain! I also have a wonderful husband who I love very dearly. Same as you, e-mails, with messages that I never got. I am 53 she is 27? COnfronted him, he did not want her, tried again, and again and again................ and here I am not knowing what to do??? I am busy loosing my mind as a result of this. She denies, he denies, yet I see the mail. On sunday he promised that the mails would end. Monday morning first mail was to her> ..............What can we do. where did we go wrong? I know how you feel. I cry with you, I pray with you because I am there!!!!

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Posted by: me | 2012-06-11

Jinne, sorry om te hoor Leonie...hoop jul kan dit uitsort, sterkte!

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Posted by: Nonto | 2012-06-11

very hurting....especially if you trust and love the man with all your heart, I feel you. my advise confront him, it could be some little flirting...nothing more...., you have been with him for long, you will pickup when he is lying to you

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2012-06-11

Maybe its easier for him to be complimentary in an unreal and distance relationship ? Anyway, marriage counselling is surelty needed here ? Its not as simple as just forgive and forget, but needs you both to work on it, together, and with expert guidance

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