Our expert says:
Maybe "all men" who you tend to meet in whatever way you go about meeting them, seem to be only after one thing, but nothing much is true of "all men" or of "all women". Your problems seems to have been more about the guys you met, and how you set up those relationships, and neither that sort of guy or that sort of relationship, are inevitable.
And if you start out already convinced that you KNOW it's not going to work out, of course it won't work out. Work with a CBT-style counsellor / psychologist to better underastand how to avoid what you don't want, and how to find and construct what you do want
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