Our expert says:
Finding your girlfriend's buttock sexually appealing and erotic, the desire to rub your penis on and between her buttocks and desiring exploring anal sex with your girlfriend does not make or mean you are gay. If you are sexually attracted to men, if you are aroused by fantasies involving sex with men, if you find yourself falling in love with men, then you may be gay.
The disappointment your girlfriend had in her previous relationship is being projected on to your relationship.
I would recommend that your girlfriend possibly consider seeing a counsellor to work through her experience and to clarify the myths she is transferring from that experience into other sexual experiences.
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