Our expert says:
Did you ever feel excited and pleased about this, at all? Or have you just lost some of the excitement in the stress and anxiety of weding preparations?
Your partner is not likely to change his ways, especially as you know him well, and have agreed to marry him AS HE IS.
The colleague is probably a form of imaginary escape. You CAN and should resist him, especially as he is married, and you should not ever encourage a married person to be unfaith ful to their wife and family just to make you feel temporarily happier.
Rather arrange to see a couples counsellor together with your fiancee, and postpone the wedding until you are sure you really want to go ahead with it or to call it off.
Do not go ahead and get married to someone you feel so little love for, and who doesn't seem to show a great deal of love for you, either.
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