Our expert says:
Your concerns are natural and sensible, and while his wish that you both pretend that no such thing happened is understandable and convenient, it isn't wise. COuples counselling would be a good idea - such concerns have to be addressed and worked through rather than ignored, if one wants to avoid a repetition of the originating problems.
We do all tend to grow up, but not always in every area in which that would be desirable. And of course it's so much easier to claim than to actually achieve.
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