Our expert says:
Generally, the way one behaves is something we learn as a child, from our parents and the people we grow up amongst - its not genetic, or inherited without long contact. And emotions are more individual than determined by parents or genetics. Your individual, entirely personal personality is created within you, by what you were bron with, but mainly by how you interacted with all that happened with you in life, the conclusions you drew ( accurate and inaccurate ) and so on. There is no way you SHOULD be, or will have to be, as you will have a really wide margin of choice. You seem to be looking for a set of rules to tell you how to be, to feel, and to behave - to be "coloured" or "german" or whatever. That's the wrong approach. I'm sure the psychologist was right to say there's nothing wrong with you, no pathology. But a good psychologist would have helped you to explore all that you can be, and to enjoy who and what you are.
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