Our expert says:
I consider it to be a form of child abuse for any parent to fail to give a child proper structure and discipline in a reasonable and kindly way. Too many divorced parents, maybe more father, spoil the kids out of huiltm and let them do whatever they please, which is not good for the child who will later in life be so disappointed that nobopdy else on earth believes she should get everything she wants. Maybe you have issues, some of the justified --- but so, very obviously, does he.
It's ludicrous to waste 50 or 100 R a week on hairdos for a 13-year-old ; and to deny milk for a baby is abusive and neglect.
Why are you marrying this man ? It sounds as though he considers you a servant for himself and his daughter, and has no real concern for you and your baby. Think very carefll before marying him or even continuing with the present arrangement. Things won't improve after marriage. If you were separated, you would not only take care of your own expenses, and work only for yourself and your baby, but could go to the maintenance court which would require him to pay proper maintenance for the needs and expenses of the baby.
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