Guys I have a burning question which I have not talked about much since I came back to this forum about two months ago. Here is a bit of a conversation I had on an American Hiv forum. Teak is an Hiv/Aids educator, and is Hiv positive himself since the eighties. Am I being ridiculous by asking this question? Why does NOBODY seem to be interested in the fact that somebody who has had unprotected sex for YEARS with an Hiv positive person has never tested positive, ever. Shouldn''t that raise a few questions? I had asked a question in a " wrong"  forum and I saw a post where somebody in almost the exact situation as myself posted a question, but he was just shot down. I persisted on his thread.
Here it is:

Teak am I in the right place now? This guy sounds just like me. What is the answer? Why dont our woman test positive when we do?

To: Brendan69
Because they never got infected. It''s not hard to understand. Be thankful and start using condoms before you do infect her.

To: Teak
Your answer is very unsatisfactory. I can almost see you already gathering the tar and feathers because my case brings doubt to the whole Hiv/Aids hypothesis. Either I am negative but something in my body is telling the instrument Im positive or my ex is positive but cannot be picked up as such. What I am saying is that we need more research into how testing is done. I am convinced that some people are getting the death sentence when they are not guilty. Can the CDC answer my question? Will they even be prepared to investigate my case?

To: Brendan69
We don''t deal with denialists.

To: Teak
I''m not a denialist. I am hiv positive and I am worried about my health as much as anybody else who is hiv positive. I do not deny that Aids exists.
I have lost personal friends to Aids related illnesses and I have two young daughters who may be at risk if the tests are not picking them up as positive. (Hence my questioning the validity of the tests in the first place) All I am saying is that as far as I know, I have an unusual case, and I am not satisfied with the answer that if I had continued having unprotected sex with my ex wife that she would have eventually become positive. Maybe she is already. Maybe my children are. But they KEEP TESTING NEGATIVE! Surely someone, somewhere would be interested to know why.

Last November my 6 year old got shingles. We all panicked thinking it was Aids related. The Hiv tests came back negative. She had Chicken Pox when she was about 11 months old and the virus just reactivated. But WHAT IF she is Hiv positive? (I just asked what if I am negative because its the other side of the same coin)

I am going mad thinking about this. Is there anyone, just one person who is willing to look at this a little deeper?