Our expert says:
Drunk isn't an excuse ( he chose to get drunk and be with her ) and the child isn't "accidental" - knocking over a glass of milk is an accident, a child is not.
See a counsellor and work out your own problems, and move on. There were good reasons for your having chosen to leave him, and they haven't changed
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