Our expert says:
Deciing to have a baby ought to be about love for the baby, not love for your fiancee. And if he couldn't even put in the effort to get a job to support the child, why did he expect you to do this for him ? Guys who are out of work and who have not had years of experience at succeeding in a line of work, very rarely if ever succeed in starting up mtheir own business. And if he was so keen for you to have a bay with him, why can't he bothered to spend his nights with you, rather than tomcatting out all night ? And getting a gun ? He's surely up to no good at all.
There is no way he could possibly take the baby from you after it is born --- he has no fixed abode of his own, no job, and is probably mixed up in crime. No court is that stupid. He's no benefit to you or the child. He is revealing himself as a dreadful and uncaring partner and parent. See a counsellor and plan to look after yourself and your child --- and you will keep the child after it is born, and could go to the Maintenance Court to have the court order him to pay maintenance for the child's expenses --- that's the least he should do for the child he insisted you should bear.
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