Our expert says:
We're diferent, as people. And wouldn't life be much duller if we were not. Some like people being physically close, some of us enjoy more distance even from loved ones ; some are very touchy-feely, some not. Some have loads of acquaintances, some just a few friends. Friendships are harder to maintain than in the days when most people lived and worked their lives close to where they went to school. And I think Facebook, etc, promote false and fake friendships, maintaining the illusion of contact without any real substance. He shouldn't make the mistake of assuming that you must love things or people just because he does --- if you were passionate about knitting, scrapbooking and netball, would he be keen to take up these activities ? He must love you as you are, not in some reconstructed form.
Sometimes you find it disillusioning to get to know people, because they are not what they seem ; sometimes it's because we pehaps expect too much from them. Some people are so shallow it's really boring to hang out with them.
If you're happy the way you are, that's a good way to be
The Constitution doesn't specify how many friends you have to have
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