Our expert says:
I understand and applaud your desire to be helpful, but I wonder whether your friend is taking sufficient reponsibility for her own decisions and actions. Pregnancy is a possibility whenever a man and a woman choose to have sex, especially when both are fertile and precautions are not used. She was also putting herself at risk of HIV and other STD, as she does not know who his sexual partners have been. You are NOT the onlt one who can help her, and the first in that line of possible helpers must be herself. Don't put yourself under such pressure. The sex was viluntary, she knew the possible consequences, and is making the choice she prefers, to deal with that. It HAS to be her decision, not yours. It sounds, between the lines, as though you are unhappy about the abortion, and being unable to really influence her decision.
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