Our expert says:
Why not just talk calmly with her, saying how sad you are that they have fallen out recently, as you are fond of each of them. And explain that you and your husband were invited to the other one's party, and accepted the invitation, but you don't want her to be upset about this. And maybe ask if there will be an opportunity on another occasion to get together with her and celebrate her own birthday, which is important to you, too.
Almost mad's suggestion about how to raise the topic is excellent
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