Our expert says:
This "love" sounds as though it is all about you, as apparently he has little or no interest in you. Why on earth did you ignore all other opportunities to meet guys who would acually like you and want to be with you, and to give so much power to this particulat guy ? Face the absolute fact --- you CANNOT force anyone to love you, and the more you try, the more impossible it becomes. This isn't his fault, either. You can't force him to fly, and you cant force anyone to love you. Love does not need force. And its not about him finding something "better" about other women--- love is a complex thing, and a person one guy would find adorable, someone else would find unpleasant. It is not his fault he doesn't fancy you. Why should he suffer pain because yopu have insisted on ignoring all other possibilities for happiness and insisting that he has to love you ? You are becoming a stalker. DO, urgently, arange to see a good local psychologist for assessment and counselling, so you can understand yourself better, free yourself from this fruitless obsession, and get free to move on to find someone who will love you back and with whom you can be happy. This is not the right guy for you.
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