Our expert says:
COuld you agree jointly to see a relaionship / marriage counsellor together ? Not necessarily to glue the marrige back together again, but to examine what has happened, what it means to both of you, and what your best options are ? He doesn't need to be keen on the idea, but to participate sincerely ( presumably, he worries that it will focus primarily on what he did wrong, which he'd rather not concentrate upon ).
Why do you feel this is all your fault ? Probably because you're a nice person, used to taking responsibility for your own choices and actions, and even sometimes for the choices and actions of others ; and he isn't
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