Our expert says:
Maybe he needs to start by getting a good job, even if it doesn't pay "a decent salary", so as to get back into the habit of proper work, and get good references and record to enable him to move on to a better paying job.
Starting a small business is uuall much harder than most people think and hope, especially if one has not much education. One of the things one can gain in any job, if one pays attention, is to learn how businesses work, and that can help one to move in that direction later on.
It would have been wise for him to get established in at least a modest-earning job before starting a family.
He must not give up and just wait around with you supporting him - even the most humble job earns something, and makes it easier to move on to a better job.
It sounds as though you are indeed being too financially supportive, and spending on him money you can't afford
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