Our expert says:
COuples counselling sounds like a great idea, and the right forum within which to explore the questions you raise.
Anon raises good points about being bored and under-occupied, too. And interesting issues about the piece of paper. SOme people just choose to live together permanently, and are happy. As soon as one says "Engaged" that's diferent. Engagement is the prelude to marriage, and after too many years, it's all overture and no opera.
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