Our expert says:
I think it would be a good idea to explain to him that men and women are designed differently. Whereas men can been aroused quickly without much foreplay, infact sometimes just the sight or thought of something sexual may be all that is needed, most women require more time and effective stimulation to get to that place of arousal. It may be necessary to gently explain this to him. Explain that just as he gets an erection, so too you need to be aroused so that the genital area will be lubricated and tissues more plumped up and 'ready' for intercourse. Sometimes you may have to tell him or gently guide a hand etc to areas which may be more receptive. Remember that at different times one feels like different things, so no two experiences are necessarily the same. Good luck, it is worth the effort.
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