Our expert says:
Its not a guy thing. I wonder what you mean by White Lie --- do you mean a life ( untruth ) about something not really important ? Part of what you seem to be complaining about is him not telling you about things --- errors of omission, rather than lies of any colour. Purple is right about how white lies normally work. She also makes the vitally important point about how easily you can get too nosey and worried about someone's life details. We're not all people who feel compelled to tweet and tell the world we've just been to the loo and now having a coffee. It does sound, from your later commentsd as though what you're doing, even if from excellent motives, may feel very like snooping. Would you really feel happy if he called your work colleagues to check up on you, or paid attention to whether you flushed the loo ? Relax
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