Our expert says:
Fortunately, you are not going to die, and this man is NOT "your whole life". He has acted, apparently, selfishly and unkindly, and may not be worthy of your unconditional love. His suggestion of "just being friends and see what happens" is ridiculous and not at all practical, and would make your unpleasant feelings worse and longer lasting. If this relationship is over, make a clean break, and move on. It sounds as though he has chosen to start a relationship with someone else, but wants to keep you hanging around like a spare tire, as a substitute for when the other woman is unavailable, or if that relationship doesn't work out well. That's insulting.
Recognize your anger, respect it, talk this over with family and/opr friends, and don't give yourself false and unhelpful messages. Keep nusy with other activities, and remind yourself that someone who has chosen to treat you this way doesn't deserve your love, and that you will in time meet someone much better and kinder, and that hanging on to false dreams of this guy, will only delay finding someone better
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