Our expert says:
You seem to have clearely identified the issues. Sex in such a situation can be a low priority ( or an escape route like your alcohol... and sex would be safer than alcohol) If you resent him then its even more difficult to become amourous . You need to address the issue with him . If he becomes involved in your world and helps to resolve the situation - the 2 of you will have a much closer relationshitp. If he does not... then he is just another problem you have to deal with. do the math.
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