Our expert says:
It's almost impossible to answer this question with any certainty. Of course there is a possibility that this could work out for you; however there is also a chance that when you meet him 'in the flesh' that he is different to how you imagine him being from the limited contact online thus far.
First of all, make sure that you are safe and that someone knows where you are meeting him. Check in with that person to let them know if you are ok - whilst this guy may be who he says he is, one can never know when meeting people online and so it is better to be cautious.
Even though you have stepped across 'sexual boundaries' online, this does not mean that you have to progress more quickly than you are comfortable to in 'real life' - take your time and go at the pace you feel safe with. This is especially true if when you meet him face-to-face he is not quite how you imagined him and perhaps some things don't add up.
Unfortunately, no matter where or how you meet a partner, no one can guarantee that the feeling of arousal will last - this is often the result of chemicals and hormones that are secreted early on in relationships and sadly they frequently do subside with time. That said, this is not true for everyone.
Best wishes and please keep safe.
Claire - SASHA
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