Our expert says:
I didn't actually realize this was an Agony column, though I do feel the pain.
So see a counsellor to learn better ways of coping with your current inability to conceive, which isn't your fault, just as it isn't the fault of the child. Be happy that your husband is a good father to her, and that she considers you a good mother. You can share THIS child with the man you love.
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