Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
my mission is to help people look at a divorce not as a break up point in their lives but a change of directions. When we divorce and have children, our responsibility towards our children remains the same. The circumstances and the rhythm around them may be different, but our responsibility remains the same. There is no reason why you should feel that you cannot give her all she deserves. All she deserves is to be allowed to have both parents in her life and to be allowed to love them both, unconditionally. This is why it is of utmost importance, with your ex-wife, to put your daughter's needs first and ask of yourselves how, what you are doing - as in the battles that are being picked within the divorce procedure -, is best serving your daughter.
So, what do you do? You keep loving your daughter and most importantly, you try and come to an arrangement with her mother that will make every party happy. I f you couldn't make each other happy before, focus on how you can both agree to make your daughter happy, together, but in separate ways.
I wish you well
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