Our expert says:
It is absolutely normal and very common for men and women who are in happy relationships to also indulge in sexual fantasies of being with other men and women as a source of stimulation during masturbation for example without it needing to mean that there is a problem in the relationship.
As for improving your sexual relationship my advice would be to discuss with him how he feels about how your sexual relationship has developed in your relationship and if there is anything he would like to explore or do to enhance it, expand it etc. This would open the conversation for you too to express your desire for the two of you to have a fun and fulfilling sexual relationship and to make some suggestions of what else you could try as a couple.
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