Our expert says:
Dear Broken woman,
The fantacy your husband is having is not an uncommon fantacy. What is important is that it is a fantasy. Fantasy and reality are two importantly different aspects of life.
The problem here is your husband seemingly wanting to pressure you into a sexual encounter you do not wish to engage in. It would be important that your husband respect your wishes too.
What you need to do is to have an open honest talk with your husband where you express clearly to him about how you feel about his pressuring you to do something you do not wish to do and how it makes you feel.
It may be helpful to consider seeing a sex therapist to assist you with the communication that needs to happen if you feel you cannot manage it on your own.
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