Our expert says:
If your father is so crudely and selfishly rude to you, he doesn't deserve any help from you. Don't allow yourself to feel at all guilty about having got him to move out or for having got a court order protecting you against him - he is himself completely responsible for that.
Any family members foolish enough to side with him don't deserve to be taken seriously by you.
I don't quite understand about your sister - is she actually still staying with you, but refusing to allow you or your mother to speak with her child ? That's ridiculous, and she should not be allowed to stay if she insists on such insulting conditions. If she is now staying somewhere else, maybe she's sulking because of that, and needs to remember that the important thing is what is best for the child, not whether she can enjoy being spiteful.
Maybe you should explore whether your mother can see a counsellor to help her understand and adapt to this sad situation
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