Our expert says:
I think you answered your own question when you say breaking up is out of the question. Keep in mind that the 'colour thing' can be a problem for people (afrikaans versus english is still a problem for some after a 100 years!). It is however you who lives with the choice and if she is a good women, compatible and you want to marry her, that is what you do! THey will learn to love her for who she is, and if they are not willing to give her a chnace -it is their loss. Both of you must however make peace with the fact that some will accept you and some will reject you. A good relationship is worth fighting for if you are sure of your choice. Deidre - SASHA
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