Our expert says:
Why were your family so determined that you should marry him, even though you yourself felt concerned that this might not be wise ? If you check back through the forum, we often hear this type of problem, of a man who remains excessively devoted to his broad family rather than to his wife and child. To neglect one's own family and to always favour the birth family over your own, is not appropriate --- and his birth family ought to recognize this and encourage him to focus on his own family, and stop making demands on him.
Is it possible for you, perhaps supported by some family members, to encourage him to join you in marriage counsellin, so he can learn more about how neglectful and hurtful his behaviour is ?
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