Our expert says:
This sounds so much like the situation of Johan in the neighbouring message. Its frightening how people like Johan and your fiancee ( and yourself ) insist on giving so very much power to other people who don't deserve it, who aren't worthy of it.
As for approachign the mother, always allow her to be the one in the wrong. When you bump into her, greet her pleasantly ; if she ignores you, that's her behaving badly, and you will have given her no excuse to complain. IF you invite her to dinner or even just cofee with you, and she refuses, again, it leaves her in the wrong, and leaves no room for anyone to complain that you're not being friendly.
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