Our expert says:
Maybe it didn't work out as he hoped, but it sounds as though your fiancee was trying to make light of this, and to let you be less upset, and to calm his mother down.
I was going to wonder why she got so cross, but smearing butter on their faces is about the most daft thing I've heard of for a long time - you surely didn't think she would LIKE it or find it funny ? Wouldn't it be sensible, anway, for you to contact her to apologise about the mutter episode, and to emphaize how much you appreciated her friendship and advice and how much you don't want to spoil that ? IT might make her feel more comfortable, and maybe even help her to apologise to you.
Maybe he could have handled it better, but at least he tried. YOu don't mention yourself trying to apologise or make it up to his mother for assaulting her with butter.
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