Our expert says:
Are you falling in love or in lust ? Don't be too desperate for love, or this can make it harder to find. Don't give too much too soon, and let love be something you achieve WITH the other person, rather than entirely on your own. You can love an object ( a Rolls-Royce, a flat-screen TV ) which doesn't need to love you back, but in relationships, it needs to be mutual or it isn't real love.
People with love self-esteem may feel an urgent need to be "in love" to make them feel more secure, and may give too much physically and emotionally to try to get that, and make themselves much more vulnerable to getting hurt. Sometimes you are actually in love with being in love, rather than with the person. Counselling can help you sort out these issues more efficiently.
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