Our expert says:
Let's se. Unless they lie to you consistently, from the start, you KNOW that they are already married or in a committed relationship. Or, at the very least, you have no clear certainty that they are NOT so committed. SO this unhelpful pattern isn't accidental or unavoidable.
Then, the issue is WHY do you continue to make these choices which you well know will end in failure and unhappiness for you and likely unhappiness for others, such as innocent wices / girl-friends, even children ? Also, you know for a certainty that a guy who is happy to cheat on his partner with you, will be just as happy to cheat on you with someone else.
Maybe there's a clue in the way you speak of this one guy as "so into you". A man having an affair pays for the sex by trying to seem "into you" in other ways as well. Do you have low self-esteem, feeling that nobody else could be interested in you ? If not, why not concentrate on getting to know honest guys who are not lying to someone else by meeting you ?
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