Our expert says:
He's no friend. If he had helpful advice ( not mere criticism ) you;'re right, he would tell you discretely when you were alone with him, and not in front of other people. And to be contradicting your boss to criticise you in front of him is downight hostile. Discuss this with your boss, who may want to explore why this guy is doing this. Possibly he wants your job ? Maybe he fels insecure that you, 9 years younger, can do as well as he can ?
Is there an HR person or dept you could discuss this with ?
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