Our expert says:
I agree with your nsuggestion of couples counselling, and you should continue to recommend it. She may fear that it would be some form o coercion to push her into accepting or rejecting the relationship and interfering with her choice of dithering about it, and she should be encouraged to recognize that couples counselling is to enable you both to better understand yourselves and each other, and what's going on between you, so as to be able to make better decisions all round.
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