Our expert says:
Yes, that was indeed out of hand. You can't "get| your wife to trust you again ; you may help her to do so by being strictly trustworthy. and maybe with some marriage counselling to sort out the issues involved here, which must be more than simple Facebook Foolishness.
From what you quote yourself as saying, of course your wife would be deeply hurt. And why on earth are so many people deluded that what they do or say on Facebook is somehow private, rather than something that could reveal itself at any time ? As CC saysm NEVER EVER say anything online, in any format, that you wouldn't be content to say out loud in front of anyone interested, or to have on a poster on your front door.
We can't tell you what your wife might need to begin to take the chance of trusting you again - only she, maybe, could tell you that.
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