Our expert says:
I understand how very upsetting this is for you, but it is your foolish and careless sister who is pregnant, not you. I think part of the problem is that YOU sacrificed for her to go to university, and she wasn't even prepared to make the relatively trivial sacrifice of postponing her sex life, or at least of taking simple contraceptive precautions. People don't appreciate what they get for nothing ; they don't appreciate other people's sacrifices made for them.
I disagree with your mom that one should simply accept such events and "move on" as though nothing has happened --- people must learn lessons from the mistakes they make, or they will repeat them. And your sister must recognize what she has done wrong, both as regards the child who may have a much dminished life than had your sister waioted until she could aford to raise a child well. It makes no sense ( and is indeed part of what is going wrong with our ccountry ) that we have gone so far beyond compassion, and actively reward people for being foolish, thoughtless and selfish.
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