Our expert says:
Parents, or any adults caring for children, must agree on a shared code of conduct for themselves and the children, with a short list of rules about important expectations, and consequences for breaking the rules.
Shoting and swearing at kids is at best entirely useless and counter-productive, and at worst, abusive. Hitting them, IS abusive, and alsto useless in improvin their behaviour - it teaches them, instead, that it's OK to hit and hurt people in order to get what you want.
I really don't see what point there would be in continuing any relationship with someone so incompatible and unable to properly care for children, whether his or yours. The kids needs and best interests must be paramount
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