Our expert says:
If the kids spend the rest of the time with her, this is a silly number of extra phone calls from the biomom to check up on her kids - it's intrusive into her ex's time with his own kids, and sounds rather like a form of spying on the time he spends with you. You and he should discuss this with the kids, and make a no-phone-calls from biomom rule about the weekends, or een suggest they put their phones on hold or block calls for the duration of the weekend. She is being highly selfish.
Maybe he and you could each make a point of calling her very frequently on those weekends, just to check up on how she's managing without the kids, what she thinks about the whether, etc., till she recognizes how intrusive such calls can be.
Maybe you can get one of those cell-phone jamming devices for your home, which you can switch on while the kids visit ?
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